We are a people that follow after those things that make for peace, love, and unity; it is our desire that others’ feet may walk in the same, and do deny and bear our testimony against all strife and wars and contentions. . . . Our weapons are not carnal, but spiritual. - Margaret Fell, 1660
We must start with our own hearts and minds. Wars will stop only when each of us is convinced that war is never the way. The places to begin acquiring the skills and maturity and generosity to avoid or to resolve conflicts are in our own homes, our personal relationships, our schools, our workplaces, and wherever decisions are made.
We must relinquish the desire to own other people, to have power over them, and to force our views on to them. We must own up to our own negative side and not look for scapegoats to blame, punish or exclude. We must resist the urge towards waste and the accumulation of possessions. - Quakers in Aotearoa (New Zealand), 1987
Conflict generally has a negative connotation, but is this right? It is my belief that early Friends throve on conflict; it brought out the best in them. . . .
In my adolescence I loved Whittier’s hymn “Dear Lord and Father of Mankind” and especially the lines “take from our souls the strain and stress and let our ordered lives confess the beauty of thy peace.” On the other hand, because by genetic inheritance and childhood conditioning I am a thinker and doer, another hymn appealed to me. This prays “not for ever by still waters would we idly rest and stay, but would strike the living fountain from the rocks along our way.” Conflict indeed, but a healthy diversity of ideas which challenged me to find the balanced path. - Ruth Watson, 1997
We need to have a much deeper concept of peace than the negative assumption that it is simply the absence of war. Peace is an organic concept, living and creative, and concerned with the relationships between people and between groups of people. . . .
The biggest threat to the future of humanity is not the atomic bomb, but the provincial mind, the limited outlook, the myopia which prevents us from seeing beyond our own immediate interests. We can be provincial and myopic, especially, in our attitudes to people who are different from ourselves in color, in religious creed, in political affiliation, in educational opportunities, in abilities. Acceptance of others is not merely tolerating others. It is an affirmation of the importance of variety and difference. - William Oats, 1990
It is not our Quakerism, or our pacifism, or our knowledge, or skill, or emotion that overcomes hate and violence. We shall surely fail if we become proud of our virtue and traditions and become vain in our witness. We shall fail if we think the power that may move through us is our own. The power is not ours, it is God’s. This is the foundation of what we must do in our testimony of peace in this time of war. The foundation is faith in the power of God’s love to transform us and our society and to bring justice to the poor and oppressed. Our task is to act, as best we understand what we are led to do, in obedience to that power. - Mary Lord, 2002